According to society if you're confident you're self-obsessed but if you're insecure you're weak so that is why i am a simple giraffe.
I guess we are who we are for a lot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know most of them. But even if we dont have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things, and we can try to feel okay about them.
You are born and then you die, but in between you can do anything you want. It's society that creates rules for us, but you can break out of that.